Staying safe when meeting someone offline:

Meeting someone new is exciting. A few simple safety precautions & tips can keep it fun & safe. Always have precautions in place when meeting new people for the first time offline.

               Before you Meet    

• Chat on the site’s messaging feature for a while first. Don’t rush to swap numbers.
• Do a video call first. It confirms they look like their photos and are who they say they are.
• Search their name and photos online. Watch for mismatched stories, reverse image hits on stolen photos, or pressure to move quickly
• Never send money, gift cards, or financial details, no matter the reason or how close you may feel                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Planning the Date
• Always meet in a busy public place , like a cafe or restaurant , for at least the first few dates , never arrange to meet at someones house.
• Arrange your own transportation so you can leave whenever you want.
• Most importantly: Tell a family member or friend who you’re meeting , where and when. Share your live location with them from your phones device.
• Keep the first date short. You can always plan a second.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               
• During the Date 
• Keep your drink in sight. Never accept drinks you didn’t watch being poured.
• Don’t share your home address, workplace , or daily routine early on.
• Trust your gut. If something feels off , you don’t owe an explanation. Leave, and ask staff for help if needed.
• Stay sober enough to make clear decisions.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              After the Date 
• Text your family member or friend that you’re safe.
• If anything felt wrong, report and block the person on the site.
• Be wary of anyone who gets pushy, guilt trips you , or can’t accept a ” No.” A good match will respect your caution & boundaries. If someone doesn’t , that tells you to be cautious